Best of Wondir This Week

• Recent Answers (last 90 days)
  • jevette holds on to first with 10,430 recent answers!
  • Bronzebabe grabs second with 7,126 answers
  • townes takes third with 7,338 answers
  
  
• Lifetime Answers
  • jevette stays in first with 42,401 lifetime answers
  • shoes holds on to second with 41,217 answers
  
  
• Detailed statistics available on the Best of Wondir page

Wondir Bowl Winners

Congratulations to the five devoted Wondir members:sammm, mealyworm25, iconjoy, Miss Dia, and jevette, who won our contest and will receive a Wondir USB radio.



We're giving away Wondir USB radios this week!  (Click image for details).

Q&A of the Week

• panty asked in the Pregnancy category:
  
  
  • I had a vasectomy over seven years ago after having two children. I am now thinking of having a reversal. what are my chances of conceiving again please?
    
    
• SoSueMe answered:
  
  
  • Success rates average only about 50%. But microsurgical techniques and training are constantly improving. Consult a qualified urological surgeon and discuss his success rate, advice, and possible alternatives.

Forward to a Friend

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Best of Wondir This Week

• Recent Answers (last 90 days)
  • jevette holds on to first with 11,303 recent answers!
  • townes grabs second with 7,602 answers
  • Bronzebabe takes third with 6,652 answers
  
  
• Lifetime Answers
  • jevette stays in first with 42,133 lifetime answers
  • shoes holds on to second with 41,093 answers
  
  
• Detailed statistics available on the Best of Wondir page

Wondir Bowl Winners

Congratulations to the five devoted Wondir members:noahsmom01, talisman, dougsmomma, Rosered, and ghost56, who won our contest and will receive a Wondir USB radio.



We're giving away Wondir USB radios this week!  (Click image for details).

Q&A of the Week

• atink asked in the Pregnancy category:
  
  
  • When should you be able to tell the baby's sex?
    
    
• Coley1120 answered:
  
  
  • Definitely by the 20th week if the baby is a good participant, but I found out at 18 weeks. The baby wasn't modest at all.
  
  
• kinz answered:
  
  
  • 18-22wks. I went at 20wks and they couldn't tell. The baby has to be cooperating as well!

Using WIM (Wondir Instant Messaging)

We've created a short list of tips to help you understand and use WIM better.

1. Everyone on Wondir (members and guests) can receive answers to their questions via WIM
   
   
2. You can choose whether or not you want questions to be sent to you via WIM.  In your Answer Control Panel (in My Wondir), select the checkbox next to, "I'm available now to answer questions via Instant Message" if you want to have questions WIMmed to you; unselect the box if you don't.
   Be sure to check your Question Frequency Preferences (see the Tip of the Week section below for details).
   
   
3. In the Response Center for each question you will see one of two WIM images
   - The Wondir user is currently on the Wondir website and can be WIMmed
   - The Wondir user is not currently on the Wondir website and cannot be WIMmed

Q&A of the Week

• Anonymous asked in the Mental Health category:
  
  
  • How do you get over paranoia and not let it destroy your life and relationship?
    
    
• imlex answered:
  
  
  • Acknowledge you have a problem and you're halfway there. Do you have people around you that you can trust to talk to? When you do feel down try to keep calm and ask questions. If something is getting you down within your relationship talk to your partner and let her/him know that you are worried but need to know honestly if there is anything to worry about; listen to what s/he tells you with an open mind and if you start to feel bad work out what s/he said that made you feel that way. Don't be tempted to keep things to yourself, as this will only make you feel worse. With time you can learn to trust your partner but s/he must be aware of your problem and treat you with care and support you when you feel down.

Providing Feedback

The Wondir community relies on and is a reflection of your feedback.  If you come across a great answer be sure to rate it.  If you see an abusive or obnoxious question or answer report it to Wondir staff by clicking on the Report Abuse link.  Please note that using the abuse or rating links on the same question or answer more than once has no additional effect.

Wondir Bowl Winners

Congratulations to the five devoted Wondir members:MD2235, jevette, Green85, townes, and MishyW, who won our contest and will receive a Wondir USB radio.



We're giving away Wondir USB radios this week!  (Click image for details).

Best of Wondir This Week

• Recent Answers (last 90 days)
  • jevette holds on to first with 12,488 recent answers!
  • mstynred takes second with 8,424 answers
  • townes reclaims third with 7,960 answers
  
  
• Lifetime Answers
  • jevette stays in first with 41,638 lifetime answers
  • shoes holds on to second with 40,653 answers
  
  
• Detailed statistics available on the Best of Wondir page

Q&A of the Week

• worrieddad2006 asked in the Pregnancy category:
  
  
  • Are cats harmful to you during pregnancy?
    
    
• EmmaGrace answered:
  
  
  • Their litter box is. It contains bad ammonia fumes and bacterias. The cats themselves are ok!

Bookmarking Questions

See a question you want to bookmark so you can follow up on it later?  Just click on the "Add to Favorites" link in the Response Center for any question you'd like to bookmark.  To access your favorites, click on "View Favorites" in your public profile.